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I've been following this thread closely as someone who's been on unemployment for about 3 months now, and I have to say - this has been one of the most helpful discussions I've seen on this topic. What really strikes me is how consistent everyone's experiences have been when they chose to be transparent with NYS DOL about family travel. Every single person who called ahead and was honest about weddings or family events had positive interactions with understanding agents, while those who tried to hide travel faced serious consequences later. I don't have any upcoming travel myself, but I'm bookmarking this thread because the advice here is gold. The key takeaways seem to be: 1) Call NYS DOL 3-4 weeks before travel, 2) Be completely honest about the family event, 3) Don't file weekly claims while away, 4) Resume filing when you return, and 5) Use Claimyr if you can't get through regular lines. Hannah, I really hope your call goes smoothly - your sister's wedding sounds like exactly the type of legitimate family event these agents deal with regularly. Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences here, especially those who were honest about the financial impact. This kind of transparent community discussion is invaluable for people navigating these stressful situations.
This thread has been such a lifesaver! I just joined this community because I've been dealing with the exact same stress about upcoming family travel while on unemployment. Reading through everyone's real experiences here has completely changed my approach from panic to confidence about doing the right thing. What really resonates with me is how you've summarized the key takeaways - having that clear roadmap makes this so much less overwhelming. I especially appreciate point #4 about resuming filing when you return, because I was worried there might be complications getting back into the system after a travel suspension. The fact that everyone who handled it properly had smooth transitions back is really reassuring. I have my cousin's wedding overseas in about 2 months and I was honestly considering not going because I was so scared about messing up my benefits. But after seeing story after story of understanding agents and positive outcomes when people are upfront about family weddings, I'm definitely going to call NYS DOL this week to report my travel plans. Thank you for putting together such a helpful summary - and thanks to everyone else who shared their experiences so openly. This community support is exactly what people need when navigating these stressful situations!
I'm dealing with this exact situation right now and this thread has been absolutely invaluable! I have my brother's wedding in the UK coming up in about 4 weeks and I've been losing sleep over how to handle it with my unemployment benefits. Reading through everyone's experiences here - especially the consistent pattern of NYS DOL agents being understanding when people are upfront about family weddings - has given me so much confidence to do the right thing. What really convinced me was seeing the stark contrast between people who were honest (smooth experiences, understanding agents) versus those who tried to hide travel (audit nightmares, owing thousands back). Sean's story about owing $3K+ for just 4 days in Canada was a real wake-up call. I'm calling NYS DOL tomorrow morning to report my travel dates and request to suspend my claim for those 10 days. Yes, losing around $1,400 in benefits will hurt, but the peace of mind and avoiding potential fraud issues is worth infinitely more. The fact that multiple people mentioned agents saying family weddings are common legitimate reasons they handle regularly makes me feel so much better about reaching out. If I can't get through the regular lines, I'll definitely try Claimyr like others have recommended. Thank you everyone for being so transparent about your experiences - this thread should be required reading for anyone on unemployment facing family travel decisions!
Wait, I thought FUTA was something we paid as employees? I've been so confused about all these unemployment taxes. My adjudication has been going on for a month and nobody at NYS Department of Labor will explain anything to me!
@Rami Samuels No, FUTA is paid entirely by employers - employees don t'contribute to it at all. You might be thinking of state unemployment taxes that sometimes come out of paychecks, but those are separate. For your adjudication delay, try calling early in the morning right when NYS Department of Labor opens - I had better luck getting through around 8 AM.
@Rami Samuels I was in the same boat with my adjudication taking forever! One thing that helped me was documenting everything - keeping records of all my attempts to contact NYS Department of Labor and any correspondence. Also, make sure you re'continuing to certify weekly even during the adjudication process. The system is definitely confusing but hang in there - most adjudications do eventually get resolved in the claimant s'favor if you were legitimately laid off or terminated without cause.
The whole unemployment tax system is such a mess. Employers are supposed to pay FUTA but half of them don't even understand their obligations. Then when workers need benefits, we're the ones who suffer from their incompetence.
@Douglas Foster @Nina Chan It s frustrating'because the Department of Labor has resources to help employers understand FUTA requirements, but many just don t take'advantage of them. The good news is that even when employers mess up their tax obligations, it typically doesn t prevent'eligible workers from receiving benefits - the state has mechanisms to handle these situations.
So I was about to throw my phone after 3 hours on hold when my neighbor told me about Claimyr. It's this service where they wait on hold for you and then call you when they get an actual human. It was the only thing that worked after weeks of trying. claimyr.com saved my sanity and got my claim fixed.
I've been dealing with this nightmare too! After reading all these comments about Claimyr, I'm definitely going to try it. Seems like multiple people here have had success with it. @Mateo - definitely try calling at exactly 8am like @Zoe suggested first, but if that doesn't work, the Claimyr thing seems legit based on all these testimonials. The fact that so many different people are vouching for it makes me think it's not a scam. Good luck with your claim!
Same here! I've been lurking on this thread because I'm dealing with the exact same phone nightmare. Seeing so many people mention Claimyr makes me think it might actually be worth trying. The regular phone system is clearly broken - I've been calling for over a week with zero luck. At this point I'm willing to try anything that might actually work!
Thanks for asking this question! I was wondering the same thing but was too embarrassed to ask. The unemployment system has so many acronyms and requirements that aren't explained clearly anywhere.
I totally understand the confusion with MWA requirements! When I first started filing, I made the mistake of not keeping proper documentation and it came back to bite me during an audit. Here's what I've learned works best: create a simple spreadsheet with columns for date, activity type (job application, networking, training, etc.), company/organization name, contact info, and any reference numbers. For the MWA name field, use the specific employer name for applications, the event name for job fairs, or the course title for training programs. Also, don't forget that informational interviews and career counseling sessions count too - I wish someone had told me that earlier since those are sometimes easier to arrange than finding new job postings every week.
This is super helpful, thank you! I wish I had seen this advice when I first started filing. The spreadsheet idea is brilliant - I've been keeping messy notes and it's been stressing me out. Quick question: when you say "reference numbers" what do you mean exactly? Like confirmation numbers from online applications? Also, I had no idea that informational interviews counted as work search activities. That actually seems more manageable than constantly hunting for job postings. Do you know if there's a limit to how many of those you can count per week?
Mateo Lopez
I'm dealing with this exact same nightmare - filed my claim in mid-December and I'm now at 6 weeks with nothing but "pending" status. What's really frustrating is that I had a straightforward layoff from a company where I worked for over 2 years, so there shouldn't be anything complicated about my case. Like everyone else here, I've called dozens of times and either get the busy signal immediately or sit on hold for hours just to get disconnected. The complete lack of communication is what's driving me insane - even just knowing there's a specific issue or getting a realistic timeline would help so much. I've had to borrow money from family for rent which is humiliating. Reading all these comments makes it clear this is a massive system failure affecting tons of people, not individual problems with our claims. I'm going to start documenting everything and contact my state representative like others have suggested. We shouldn't have to become advocates just to get basic unemployment benefits processed. Hang in there everyone - hopefully our collective pressure will force some accountability from NYS DOL.
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•@Mateo Lopez I m'so sorry you re'going through this too - the fact that you have a straightforward case 2+ (years at the same company, clear layoff and) are still stuck in limbo for 6 weeks really highlights how broken the system is right now. I m'in a very similar situation - filed around the same time with what should be a simple case, and I m'also at the point of having to ask family for help with basic expenses. The humiliation of that on top of the stress of not knowing what s'happening is just awful. Your idea about documenting everything and contacting your representative is exactly what I m'planning to do this week too. It s'clear from everyone s'experiences here that this isn t'about complicated individual cases - it s'a massive systemic failure that s'affecting hundreds of people who all filed around the same time. Maybe if enough of us reach out to our representatives with identical documented evidence of these delays, we can finally get some answers and force them to fix whatever is broken in their processing system. Stay strong - you re'definitely not alone in this mess.
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Amara Nwosu
I'm experiencing the exact same frustrating situation - filed my initial claim in early December and I'm now at week 7 with nothing but "pending" status and zero communication from NYS DOL. Like so many others here, I've made countless attempts to call but either get immediately disconnected or wait hours on hold just to get cut off. What's really striking is reading through all these comments and seeing we ALL have nearly identical experiences - same filing timeframes, same pending status, same phone issues. This clearly shows it's a massive systemic failure at the department level, not problems with individual claims. I've been keeping detailed records of every call attempt and weekly certification, and after reading everyone's suggestions I'm definitely going to contact my assembly member's office this week. The financial stress is overwhelming, but honestly the complete lack of transparency about what's causing these delays or any timeline is what's really affecting my mental health. It's both comforting and alarming to see how widespread this problem is. Thanks to everyone for sharing their experiences - knowing we're not alone in this broken system helps, and hopefully if enough of us contact our representatives with documented evidence of these systematic delays, we can finally force some accountability and get the answers we all desperately need.
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