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I just want to say how CRAZY it is that you have THREE DEGREES and can't find work!!! Age discrimination is so real and nobody talks about it enough. My husband has been dealing with the same thing - he's 62 with an MBA and 30 years experience but nobody will hire him. They never say it's because of age but we all know that's what it is. The whole system is broken!!
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this difficult situation. As someone who went through a similar decision process, I wanted to share a few thoughts that might help. First, the reality is that your current financial stress is costing you more than just money - it's affecting your quality of life and probably your health too. Sometimes the "mathematically optimal" choice isn't the right choice for your actual circumstances. That said, before you decide, I'd suggest doing a few things: 1. Use one of those comprehensive calculators others mentioned to see your actual break-even point 2. Look into whether you qualify for any state programs that could pay you as a caregiver (even if your sister resists initially, showing her the financial benefit might change her mind) 3. Consider whether you could supplement SS with some remote work - tutoring, consulting, or even part-time remote positions that wouldn't interfere with caregiving The fact that you're only 64 means you're not taking benefits super early, and the reduction isn't as severe as it would be at 62. Plus, if your employment situation does improve later, you have options to optimize. Whatever you decide, don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. You're dealing with real circumstances that require real solutions, not textbook answers.
Thanks everyone for your help! Just to summarize what I've learned:1) I can stop working anytime in March 2025 without penalty since that's my FRA month2) I should apply about 3 months before (Dec 2024)3) I'll get my first payment in April 2025 for March benefits4) I need to be aware of earnings limits for Jan-Feb 2025 but I'll be fine with my salaryThis community has been SO much more helpful than my HR department! 😊
Perfect summary! You've got all the key points covered. Just one additional tip - when you apply in December, make sure to have your recent tax returns and W-2s handy as they might ask for income verification. Also, if you haven't already, create a my Social Security account at ssa.gov to track your application status and eventually manage your benefits online. It's really convenient to have everything in one place. Best of luck with your retirement!
UPDATE: You were all right! I finally got the letter today (7 business days after the deposit). It was indeed a Medicare IRMAA adjustment based on my 2024 tax return showing lower income. They refunded me for the higher premium I'd been paying since January. Mystery solved! Thanks everyone for your help and reassurance.
knew it!! exact same thing happened to me. glad you got your answer!
Great news! IRMAA adjustments are one of the most common reasons for unexpected deposits. For anyone else reading this in the future: if your income drops due to a life-changing event (retirement, death of spouse, divorce, etc.), you can file Form SSA-44 to request an IRMAA reduction without waiting for your next tax return to be processed.
Glad you got it sorted out! Your experience is a perfect example of why it's so important not to panic when you see an unexpected deposit. IRMAA adjustments are actually pretty routine - SSA processes thousands of these every month when people's income situations change. For future reference, you can also check your Medicare.gov account to see your current IRMAA status and any recent adjustments. It's usually updated faster than the paper letters arrive. Thanks for following up with the resolution - it'll definitely help others who find themselves in the same situation!
btw you dont have to wait til 67 if you dont want to. you can take reduced benefits at 60 if you need the money now. its like 70% of the full amount i think
I went through a similar situation when my husband passed after receiving disability benefits. One thing that really helped me was calling the SSA first thing in the morning (around 8 AM) when they open - I had much better luck getting through than calling later in the day. Also, if you happen to have a local SSA office nearby, sometimes scheduling an in-person appointment can be easier than trying to get through on the phone. They were very patient with me during the application process and walked me through everything step by step. The most important thing is having all your documents ready beforehand. Good luck with your application - you've got this!
Adaline Wong
I've been following this issue closely as someone who worked both in the private sector and local government. From what I understand, the confusion might stem from the fact that the Social Security Fairness Act (H.R. 82) did pass the House with bipartisan support, but it still needs to clear the Senate. That might be where the rumors are coming from - people hearing about "passage" but not realizing it's only halfway through the process. The reality is that even if it does eventually become law, implementation would take time. SSA would need months to reprogram their systems and recalculate benefits for millions of people. So even in the best case scenario, we're probably looking at late 2025 or 2026 before any actual payments would change. I'd recommend signing up for SSA's email updates and following the bill's progress on congress.gov rather than relying on word-of-mouth. The stakes are too high to get our hopes up based on incomplete information.
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Giovanni Moretti
I'm in a similar situation as a retired teacher from Texas who also worked in private industry for 15 years. The WEP reduction has been frustrating, but I wanted to share what I've learned from attending a recent Social Security workshop at our local senior center. The presenter (a former SSA employee) emphasized that legitimate changes to WEP will ALWAYS be announced through official channels first - SSA's website, press releases, and then individual notices to affected beneficiaries. She warned us about misinformation spreading through social media and word-of-mouth, which can get people's hopes up unnecessarily. One thing that might help while waiting for potential reform: if you haven't already, request a detailed breakdown of how your WEP reduction was calculated. Sometimes there are errors, and you have the right to appeal if you believe the calculation is wrong. Also, keep good records of all your earnings - both covered and non-covered employment - as you may need them if/when any changes are implemented. The waiting is hard, but it's better to get accurate information than to be disappointed by rumors. Thanks to everyone who shared factual updates here - this kind of discussion really helps!
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Cassandra Moon
•Thank you for sharing those insights from the workshop! As someone new to navigating these issues, I really appreciate the advice about requesting a detailed breakdown of the WEP calculation. I had no idea that was even possible or that there could be errors in the calculations. The reminder about only trusting official SSA channels is also helpful - it's so easy to get caught up in hopeful rumors when you're dealing with reduced benefits. I'll definitely look into getting my calculation reviewed and keep better records of my work history. This community has been incredibly informative for understanding these complex rules!
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