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Don't forget to think about state-level estate taxes too! I learned this the hard way. My family's trust was all set up to handle federal estate taxes but completely ignored the state-level taxes in our state which has a much lower exemption. Cost us over $150k in taxes we could have avoided with better planning. Make sure your uncle's attorney is considering both federal AND state taxes in whatever trust strategy they use.
I hadn't even thought about state taxes - we're in Washington state. Do different states have their own separate estate tax systems? Is there a way to look this up?
Yes, Washington state definitely has its own estate tax, and the exemption amount is much lower than the federal one - around $2.2 million last I checked. This is exactly the kind of situation where your uncle needs good planning! Washington's estate tax rates are progressive, ranging from about 10% to 20% for larger estates. There are some planning strategies that work specifically for Washington state taxes. You can find the basics on the Washington Department of Revenue website, but this is absolutely something your uncle's estate attorney should be addressing specifically.
Quick question for anyone who knows - if I'm named as a trustee on someone's trust, does that create any tax implications for me personally? Like do I have to report anything on my own taxes? I'm in a similar situation as the original poster.
Being a trustee doesn't generally create personal tax implications for you. The trust is its own tax entity with its own tax ID number. As trustee, you'll be responsible for ensuring the trust tax returns are filed, but you don't report trust income on your personal return unless you're also a beneficiary receiving distributions.
One of the weirdest tax rules I've come across is that if you have forgiven debt (like cancelled credit card debt or a foreclosure), the IRS treats that as INCOME you have to pay taxes on! So if you're already struggling financially and manage to get $10k in debt forgiven, surprise! You now potentially owe taxes on that $10k as if someone handed you cash. There are some exceptions like bankruptcy, but it's still a crazy rule that kicks people when they're down.
Wait that's insane! So if I negotiate with my credit card company to settle a debt for less than I owe, I'd have to pay taxes on the amount they forgive? How would that even work with the timing? Like would I get a tax form the next year?
Exactly! The credit card company would send you a 1099-C form (Cancellation of Debt) in January/February of the following year showing the amount of debt that was forgiven, and you'd have to report that as income on your tax return. For example, if you settled a $15,000 debt for $10,000, you'd receive a 1099-C showing $5,000 of cancelled debt, which would be added to your taxable income. The timing can be especially brutal because by the time you get the form, you might have already spent that "savings" or not budgeted for the additional tax liability.
Has anyone heard about the weird rule where you pay different tax rates depending on if you get paid bi-weekly vs monthly? My friend says she gets more money overall with bi-weekly but i think shes confused about how tax brackets work...
Your friend is partially right but for the wrong reason. The withholding calculations can be different between bi-weekly and monthly payrolls, but your actual tax liability at the end of the year is exactly the same regardless of pay frequency. What happens is that bi-weekly receives 26 paychecks per year (which equals 52 weeks), while monthly receives 12. The withholding tables sometimes calculate slightly differently, which can result in slightly different amounts being withheld. But when you file your actual tax return, it's based on your total annual income, not how frequently you received it.
Just to add another perspective - I'm an accounting student and we just covered this in my tax class. The professor specifically used this example! You filing your own return has ZERO impact on whether your mom can claim you as a dependent. The only thing that matters is whether you meet the dependency tests: 1. Relationship test (you're her child ✓) 2. Age test (under 19 or under 24 if full-time student ✓) 3. Residency test (lived with her more than half the year ✓) 4. Support test (she provided more than half your support ✓) 5. Joint return test (you're not filing jointly with a spouse ✓) Just make sure you checked the box that says "Someone can claim you as a dependent" on your return!
Thanks for breaking it down like this! I definitely meet all those tests. I live at home, mom pays for most everything, and I'm 16. I'm pretty sure I checked the right box on my return, but is there any way to double-check or fix it if I didn't?
You can double-check by looking at a copy of your filed return - it's on the first page of Form 1040. If you filed electronically, you should be able to log back into the tax software you used and view your completed return. If you did make a mistake and didn't check that box, you can file an amended return (Form 1040-X) to correct it. But honestly, even if you messed that up, it doesn't prevent your mom from claiming you - it might just cause the IRS to send a notice asking for clarification. The actual eligibility for being claimed as a dependent is what matters, not whether you checked the box correctly.
I went through this exact drama with my daughter last year! She worked at the mall and filed her taxes, then my husband freaked out thinking we couldn't claim her anymore. We actually brought all our paperwork to a tax preparer who laughed and said this happens all the time. Bottom line: a dependent filing their own tax return has NOTHING to do with whether the parent can claim them. They're completely separate things. As long as you're under 19, live at home, and your mom provides more than half your support, she can absolutely claim you AND get the child tax credit. Show your mom this thread!
Something important that hasn't been mentioned - if your father-in-law has long-term care insurance that's covering any portion of the nursing home costs, you cannot deduct those portions that are reimbursed. You can only deduct the out-of-pocket expenses. Also, look into whether he might qualify for Medicaid. Depending on your state and his assets, he might be eligible, which could significantly reduce the out-of-pocket costs. Though there are lookback periods for asset transfers to be aware of.
Thank you for bringing this up! They don't have long-term care insurance unfortunately. They looked into Medicaid but were told they have too many assets to qualify right now. They're spending down their retirement savings at an alarming rate with these nursing home bills. Do you know if the medical expense deduction applies to withdrawals from retirement accounts that are used to pay for the nursing home?
Yes, you can still claim the medical expense deduction even if the money comes from retirement account withdrawals. The source of the funds doesn't affect the deductibility of the medical expense. However, be aware that withdrawals from traditional retirement accounts (like a traditional IRA or 401k) are generally taxable income, which will increase your AGI. This could potentially reduce the benefit of the medical expense deduction since you can only deduct expenses that exceed 7.5% of your AGI. It creates a bit of a circular problem - you withdraw money to pay medical bills, which increases your income, which raises the threshold for deducting those same medical bills.
A tip from someone who's been through this - make sure you're keeping track of ALL qualifying medical expenses, not just the nursing home. Transportation costs to medical appointments (including gas and parking), prescription drugs, medical equipment, vision care, dental work, hearing aids, etc. all count toward that 7.5% threshold. For my mom with similar issues, we were able to deduct things like: - Special food for her feeding tube - Incontinence supplies - Medical alert system - Portion of utilities for medical equipment at home (before nursing home) - Modifications to bathroom for accessibility
Ali Anderson
Has anyone had luck with the new W-4 form for setting withholding? I've tried twice to adjust mine to break even but still ended up with a $1,800 refund this year. The calculator on the IRS website seems off.
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Zadie Patel
•I had the same issue until I realized the new W-4 doesn't use allowances anymore. You have to put actual dollar amounts for additional income and deductions. I put $200 extra on Line 4(c) for additional withholding and finally got close to breaking even last year.
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A Man D Mortal
unpopular opinion: i LOVE getting a big refund and don't care that it's "inefficient" lol. that $3k hitting my account in february is my yearly reset button. paid off my credit cards, fixed my car, and still had enough for a weekend trip. no way i would've saved that much during the year even if i tried. for me personally the psychology of it works and after trying both ways i'm sticking with big refunds forever sorry not sorry financial advisors 😂
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Declan Ramirez
•Same here! My $2,700 refund this year went straight to a down payment fund that I've been trying to build for 2 years. Something about that lump sum makes it easier to put toward a big goal instead of watching it disappear $225 a month.
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Maya Diaz
•I guess that makes sense if you know you won't save it otherwise. I just hate the feeling that I'm giving away my money for months when it could be working for me. Different strokes I guess!
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