Does your parenting plan specifically state who claims which child each year? Or does it just say you "split" them? This could make a difference.

I understand your frustration completely. The disconnect between family court orders and actual IRS rules creates these impossible situations for parents. Based on what you've described, you likely had your son for significantly more than 183 nights this year (the IRS threshold for custodial parent status), especially with that 4-month absence. Under IRS rules, the custodial parent has the primary right to claim the child as a dependent. However, you're caught between two systems: the IRS rules that would likely support your claim, and a court order that could hold you in contempt if violated. My suggestion would be to document everything - every night each child stayed with you versus your ex, all expenses you covered during the absence period, any communication about the missed parenting time. Then consider going back to court specifically requesting a one-year modification to the tax arrangement based on the actual custody time this year, not a permanent change to the parenting plan. You might also want to speak directly with an IRS agent about your specific situation. They can clarify whether your actual custody time this year would qualify you as the custodial parent under their rules, which could strengthen your position if you need to return to family court.

Don't fret too much about this. The real question is whether you're entitled to the larger refund that TurboTax calculated. If yes, then definitely file an amended return to get that money. If the difference is small (like under $100), honestly it might not be worth the hassle of amending.

I went through something very similar a few years ago! The stress is real, but you're going to be okay. Here's what actually happened in my case: Credit Karma filed first and was accepted, TurboTax got rejected automatically about 10 days later with a duplicate filing notice. The key thing is that you NEED to file that amended return since your Credit Karma filing was missing the Medicaid waiver income. This isn't just about getting a bigger refund - it's about reporting your income correctly to the IRS. I made the mistake of thinking "close enough" initially and almost got hit with an audit notice later. For the amendment process, I'd recommend using the same software that gave you the more accurate return (TurboTax in your case) to prepare Form 1040-X. They usually have good step-by-step guidance for amendments. Just be very clear in the explanation section that you accidentally filed twice and are correcting the income reporting. One tip: keep copies of both returns and all your documentation. If the IRS has any questions down the line, having everything organized will save you major headaches. The whole process took about 4 months for me to get the amended refund, but it was worth doing it right.

Am I the only one who thinks these expense tracking apps are more trouble than their worth? I went back to the old school spreadsheet method after trying 3 different apps. None of them categorize expenses correctly for tax purposes and I always end up redoing everything manually anyway.

I had the exact same problem with Simplywise last month! After trying all the suggested menu paths with no luck, I discovered you actually need to go through their web portal instead of the mobile app. Log into your Simplywise account on a desktop browser, then go to Reports > Tax Year Summary > Export Options. The mobile app is missing this functionality for some reason. From there you can download a comprehensive tax report in PDF or Excel format that includes all your categorized expenses with proper IRS-compliant documentation. Hope this helps and you can get it to your CPA in time!

Hmm, I think everyone's missing something important here. The mini-split heat pump might actually qualify as 5-year property under MACRS, not 39-year property. HVAC equipment is typically considered 5-year property when it's not a structural component of the building. Since mini-splits are somewhat standalone systems (unlike central HVAC that's built into the structure), you might be able to depreciate it much faster even without Section 179 or bonus depreciation.

This is a great discussion with some really valuable insights. Based on everything shared here, it sounds like you have a few solid options for your mini-split depreciation: 1. **Section 179**: Given your 3.5-day average rental period (well under 30 days), you should qualify for the short-term rental exception. This would let you deduct the full $3,835 in 2024. 2. **5-year MACRS**: As Cole mentioned, mini-splits often qualify as equipment rather than building components. This could be a middle ground - faster than 39 years but spread over 5 years instead of all at once. 3. **Bonus depreciation**: 60% immediate deduction for 2024, then depreciate the remainder. Given your $145k AGI, I'd lean toward either Section 179 or the 5-year MACRS approach. The immediate deduction from Section 179 could be valuable at your current tax bracket, but you'll want to consider the QBI implications Jasmine mentioned. One thing to keep in mind: whichever method you choose, make sure you're applying it consistently to similar improvements. The IRS likes consistency in depreciation methods across similar assets. Have you considered getting a second opinion from a tax professional who specializes in rental properties? With the complexity of short-term rental taxation, it might be worth the investment to ensure you're maximizing your deductions while staying compliant.

Don't overthink this your first year. I did the same thing last year and spent WAY too much time analyzing options. A SEP-IRA is the simplest option to get started with - you can always switch to a Solo 401k next year if your business does well and you want to maximize contributions. For reference, here's what I contributed with around $85k in Schedule C income: - $15,800 to my SEP-IRA (about 20% of my profit after SE tax adjustment) - Still maxed my personal Roth IRA for additional tax diversity The huge advantage of starting with a SEP is you can set it up and fund it until your tax filing deadline including extensions. So you have until October 2026 to actually fund your 2025 SEP contribution if you extend your return.

As someone who just went through this exact decision process, I'd echo what others have said about starting with a SEP-IRA for simplicity. The "3 year rule" you mentioned definitely doesn't exist for SEP-IRAs - that might be something you saw related to defined benefit plans or other tax provisions. One thing I wish someone had told me earlier: don't forget that your SEP contribution is based on your net self-employment earnings AFTER the deduction for half of your self-employment tax. So if your Schedule C shows $50k profit, you'll actually be contributing 25% of something closer to $46k after that adjustment. Also, since you're filing Schedule C, make sure you're setting aside money for quarterly estimated taxes if you haven't already. The retirement contribution will help reduce your tax burden, but you'll still likely owe SE tax on your business income. Good luck with your first year as an entrepreneur!