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One important thing to note: Many private universities actually require FAFSA completion for all students regardless of need - it's in their enrollment policies. Check your son's school handbook or financial aid website. Some will actually place registration holds if you don't complete it annually.
As someone new to navigating college finances, this thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm in a similar situation with my daughter starting college next year - we likely won't qualify for need-based aid but I was on the fence about completing the FAFSA. After reading everyone's experiences, especially about merit scholarships, work-study jobs, and unexpected circumstances, I'm definitely going to make it an annual priority. Better safe than sorry, and 20-30 minutes a year seems like a small investment to keep all doors open. Thanks everyone for sharing your real-world experiences!
Your SAI of 74,246 definitely puts you in a tough spot for need-based federal aid, but don't lose hope! I work as a financial aid advisor and see situations like yours regularly. A few things to keep in mind: The loss of the sibling discount with the new FAFSA really hit families hard - you're right to feel frustrated about that change. However, institutional aid policies vary WIDELY between schools. I've seen students with SAIs in the 70k range get substantial aid packages from private colleges with good endowments. Since you mentioned debt being a factor, document everything for your Professional Judgment appeals: credit card payments, medical debt, any unusual expenses. Some schools are more generous with special circumstances than others. Also consider this: your SAI stays relatively stable year to year (barring major income changes), so whatever aid you receive will likely continue. Don't just look at freshman year costs - think about the full 4-year picture when making your decision. Keep applying for merit scholarships too - those don't care about your SAI at all!
Thank you for the professional perspective! It's reassuring to hear from someone who works in financial aid directly. I really appreciate the point about looking at the 4-year picture rather than just freshman year costs - that's definitely something I'll factor into my decision making. I'm already starting to compile documentation for the Professional Judgment appeals, including our credit card statements and medical bills from my mom's surgery last year. Quick question: when you say some schools are more generous with special circumstances than others, is there any way to tell beforehand which schools might be more flexible, or do I just have to submit appeals to all of them and see what happens?
Great question! Unfortunately, there's no easy way to predict which schools will be more flexible with appeals beforehand. However, here are some general patterns I've noticed: private colleges with larger endowments tend to have more discretionary funding available for special circumstances. Schools that emphasize "meeting full need" or have need-blind admissions often have more robust appeal processes. You can sometimes get a sense by looking at their financial aid websites - schools that provide detailed information about Professional Judgment appeals and list specific examples of qualifying circumstances tend to be more open to considering them. Liberal arts colleges also tend to review appeals more holistically than large public universities. But honestly, you should submit appeals to all three schools since the process varies so much by institution. The worst they can say is no, and you might be surprised by which school comes through with additional aid. Each financial aid office has different priorities and available funds.
I'm new to this whole financial aid process and reading through everyone's experiences here is both scary and helpful! My SAI came back at 81,000 which seems even worse than yours, but seeing that some people with similar numbers still got decent aid packages gives me a tiny bit of hope. One thing I'm wondering - for those who did the Professional Judgment appeals, how long did it take to hear back from schools? I'm trying to figure out timing since I need to make my college decision by May 1st. Also, did any of you have success getting your SAI actually recalculated, or did schools just offer additional institutional aid while keeping the original SAI the same? Thanks for all the detailed advice in this thread - it's way more helpful than anything I could find on official websites!
Hey! I'm also pretty new to this process and your SAI is definitely challenging, but don't give up hope yet! From what I've been reading here, the timing for Professional Judgment appeals varies quite a bit between schools. Some people have mentioned getting responses in 2-3 weeks, while others had to wait over a month. Since you need to decide by May 1st, I'd definitely recommend submitting those appeals ASAP if you're planning to do them. As for your question about SAI recalculation vs additional institutional aid - from what I understand, the SAI itself usually stays the same since that's calculated by the federal formula, but schools can offer additional grants or aid on top of what the SAI suggests you're eligible for. So you might still see that 81,000 SAI on your paperwork, but get extra institutional money that makes your net cost much lower. Honestly, this whole thread has been way more educational than any of the official FAFSA resources I've looked at. Good luck with your appeals!
Hi Marcelle! Welcome to the community! I just went through this exact situation last year when my mom remarried right before I started college. The anxiety about double-counting is so real - I remember losing sleep over it! Just want to add one thing that really helped us: when you're gathering all the asset information to report, make sure you have the account balances as of the same date for both you and your husband. The FAFSA asks for assets "as of the date you submit the application," but sometimes people pull account statements from different dates which can cause confusion during verification. Also, if your daughter's schools use CSS Profile in addition to FAFSA, be prepared - they handle stepparent income differently and you might need to provide even more detailed explanations about the remarriage timing there. The good news is that financial aid officers really do understand these situations since remarriage during the college years is super common. Most of them have standard procedures for handling it. You're being so proactive by asking these questions early - that's going to make the whole process smoother!
Hi Taylor! Thank you so much for the welcome and for sharing your experience - it really helps to know I'm not the only one who lost sleep over this! That's such a practical tip about making sure all the account balances are from the same date. I was just planning to grab whatever statements I had handy, but you're absolutely right that having everything from the same snapshot date would avoid confusion later. I hadn't even thought about CSS Profile potentially handling things differently - my daughter did submit that for a couple of her schools, so I'll definitely need to look into whether they'll need additional explanations about our remarriage timing. It's reassuring to hear that this is common enough that financial aid officers have standard procedures. I'm feeling so much more prepared thanks to everyone here sharing their experiences and tips!
Hi Marcelle! Welcome to the community! I'm new here too and just went through a very similar situation with my remarriage in early 2023. Reading your post brought back all the anxiety I felt about the FAFSA process! I wanted to share something that might help ease your worries - when I called the FSA helpline (eventually got through using one of those callback services someone mentioned), the representative actually walked me through exactly how the contributor system works. She explained that the system has built-in safeguards to prevent double-counting because it links all the FSA IDs in a household together. So when your husband creates his FSA ID and signs as a contributor, the system already knows he's your spouse and won't ask him to re-enter asset information. One thing that helped me was keeping a simple log of every step in the process - when I submitted the FAFSA, when my husband got his FSA ID, when verification was completed, etc. It made me feel more in control of what felt like a really overwhelming process. The remarriage timing issue is definitely frustrating (why should his 2022 income count when he wasn't even part of our family then?), but I was pleasantly surprised that 4 out of 5 schools my daughter applied to were willing to do professional judgment reviews. The appeals really can make a significant difference in your aid package. You're asking all the right questions and being so thoughtful about the process. Hang in there - it's stressful now but it does get resolved!
Hi Sean! Thank you so much for the warm welcome and for sharing your experience - it's such a relief to hear from someone who just went through this exact same situation! Your explanation about the built-in safeguards really puts my mind at ease. I've been so worried about making a mistake that would mess up my daughter's financial aid. The log idea is fantastic - I'm definitely going to start one today to track everything as we go through the process. It's encouraging to hear that 4 out of 5 schools were willing to do professional judgment reviews for you! That gives me hope that most of my daughter's schools will be understanding about our situation too. I really appreciate you taking the time to reassure me and share such practical advice. This community has been incredible - I went from feeling completely overwhelmed to actually having a clear plan forward. Thank you again!
I'm in a similar situation - SAI of 21,450 with parents making about $80k. What really helped me was creating a spreadsheet to track all my aid offers as they came in. Don't just look at the total aid amount, but break down grants vs loans vs work-study. Some schools that seemed expensive initially ended up being more affordable after aid. Also, if you haven't already, make sure you've applied to your state's grant programs - many have deadlines separate from FAFSA and can provide additional funding even with higher SAI scores. The CSS Profile schools might also offer more institutional aid if you're applying to any of those.
The spreadsheet idea is brilliant! I never thought to break down grants vs loans like that. Do you have any recommendations for which state grant programs are worth applying to? I'm in Illinois and honestly had no idea there were separate applications beyond FAFSA. Also curious about the CSS Profile - is it worth doing even if schools don't require it?
Hey! I'm new to this whole FAFSA process and your situation sounds really similar to mine. My SAI came back at 22,315 and I was also panicking thinking I wouldn't get any aid at all. Reading through these responses has been super helpful though - it sounds like there's still hope for some grants and definitely loans/work-study options. The thing about having a sibling in college at the same time is really reassuring too since my sister will be starting her sophomore year when I'm a freshman. Did you end up getting your 1099 income situation sorted out? I'm wondering if my family might have a similar issue since my mom does some freelance work on the side.
Welcome to the community! Your SAI is actually pretty close to mine, so you're definitely not alone in this situation. I haven't fully resolved the 1099 issue yet - I'm planning to call the FAFSA helpline this week to see if we need to make any corrections. If your mom has freelance income, definitely double-check that it was reported correctly since that can sometimes throw off the calculations. The sibling thing is really encouraging though - from what everyone's saying here, that should help both of you get better aid packages. Keep us posted on how your applications go!
Aaliyah Reed
Don't panic about the "processed" status - it's actually a good sign that your initial submission went through without any major errors! I went through this same anxiety last year. Here's what I learned: "processed" means the Department of Education has reviewed your basic information and calculated your SAI, but you're not necessarily done yet. Keep checking your studentaid.gov account and email regularly for the next few weeks. If you get selected for verification (about 1 in 3 chance), you'll get an email and see it in your account. The key is to respond quickly if they ask for additional documents. Also, make sure to check with each of your schools about their specific deadlines and whether they need any additional forms like the CSS Profile. Your SAI of 8750 actually puts you in a decent position for aid - you'll likely qualify for subsidized loans and potentially some grant money depending on the schools you're applying to. Just stay on top of checking your accounts and you'll be fine!
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Salim Nasir
•Thank you so much Aaliyah! This really helps calm my nerves. I've been obsessively checking my account multiple times a day since posting this question lol. It's good to know that my SAI might actually work in my favor - I was worried 8750 was too high to get any meaningful aid. I'll definitely look into whether my schools need the CSS Profile too, I hadn't even thought about that. Really appreciate everyone sharing their experiences here, it's making this whole process feel way less scary!
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Ravi Patel
Ruby, I totally get your anxiety about this! I just went through the exact same thing last month. When my FAFSA showed "processed" I thought I was done, but then about 2 weeks later I got hit with verification. Honestly, the "processed" status is kind of misleading because it really just means they've done the initial data entry and calculated your SAI - but there are still several things that could happen. Your SAI of 8750 is actually not bad at all! I had a similar number and ended up getting a partial Pell Grant plus subsidized loans. The verification process was annoying but not terrible - just had to submit tax transcripts and fill out a worksheet. My biggest advice is to set up email notifications on studentaid.gov and check your account at least twice a week. Also, definitely look into whether your schools need CSS Profile because that caught me off guard. The whole system is designed to be confusing but you've got this! Keep us updated on how it goes.
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Lucas Parker
•Thanks Ravi! It's so reassuring to hear from people who just went through this process. I had no idea about the CSS Profile requirement - I'm definitely going to check with my schools about that this week. The verification thing still makes me nervous but at least now I know what to expect if it happens. I've already set up email notifications like you suggested. Really appreciate you and everyone else sharing your experiences - this community is amazing for navigating all this confusing financial aid stuff!
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