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As someone who works in financial aid, I want to emphasize a few critical points that haven't been fully covered: 1) For Parent Plus loans, make sure your parent understands they are personally liable for the full amount - it's not forgiven if something happens to the student. 2) If you're considering declining work-study now but might want it later, you usually CAN'T add it back mid-year once you decline it. 3) Keep copies of ALL financial aid communications - not just acceptance confirmations but also the original award letter and any correspondence about deadlines. Schools sometimes have system glitches or policy changes, and having your own records can be crucial for resolving disputes. Also, since you mentioned being first-gen, definitely attend any "financial literacy" or "managing college costs" workshops your school offers - they're incredibly valuable for understanding the long-term impact of your borrowing decisions.
This is incredibly valuable information, thank you Ethan! As someone new to all of this, I really appreciate the perspective from someone who actually works in financial aid. I definitely want to make sure my mom understands the Parent Plus loan responsibility before she signs anything. And I had no idea that declining work-study means I can't get it back later - that's really important to know since I'm still figuring out how much time I'll have for work with my course load. I'll definitely keep copies of everything and look into those financial literacy workshops. It's reassuring to know schools offer resources specifically for students like me who are navigating this for the first time. Thanks for taking the time to share your professional insights!
Hey Dylan! I went through this exact same confusion last year as a first-gen student. One thing I wish someone had told me earlier is to create a checklist of all the steps you need to complete - it really helped me stay organized. Based on what everyone's shared here, your checklist should include: 1) Accept each aid component in the financial aid portal, 2) Have your mom complete the Parent Plus application with credit check, 3) Submit Professional Judgment request with documentation of your dad's job loss, 4) Take screenshots of all acceptances, 5) Check for any institutional deadlines that might be earlier than federal ones, and 6) Contact housing about aid disbursement timing. Don't forget to also complete entrance counseling for any loans you accept - that's a federal requirement that sometimes gets overlooked. You've got this! The fact that you're asking these questions now shows you're on the right track.
This checklist is amazing, Malik! Thank you so much for putting it all together in one place - I was starting to feel overwhelmed trying to keep track of everything everyone mentioned. I'm definitely going to save this and work through each item step by step. It's really encouraging to hear from another first-gen student who made it through this process successfully. Quick question - do you remember roughly how long the entrance counseling took to complete? I want to make sure I budget enough time for that along with everything else on the list. Thanks again for organizing all this helpful information!
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this incredibly frustrating situation! I'm new to this community but felt compelled to share something that worked for my family after we struggled with a similar FAFSA technical issue. One approach I haven't seen mentioned yet is reaching out to your U.S. Senator's office (not just your House representative). Senate offices often have more specialized staff for federal agency issues, and they can sometimes get faster responses from the Department of Education. When I contacted our Senator's caseworker, they were able to get a direct contact at FSA who manually reviewed our case within 48 hours. Also, have you tried accessing the site using a mobile hotspot instead of your regular internet? Sometimes ISPs have caching issues with government sites that can cause persistent errors. It sounds silly, but using my phone's hotspot with a tablet got me past an error that had been blocking me for weeks on my home internet. The fact that this has been going on for months with no resolution from their support team is completely unacceptable. Your daughter's education shouldn't be held hostage by their technical failures. Document everything and don't be afraid to escalate this as high as you need to go - you're dealing with a legitimate system failure that's affecting your family's financial future. Hang in there - between all the great suggestions in this thread, something is going to work!
Thank you so much for joining just to help - this community has been incredible! The idea of contacting a Senator's office instead of just the House representative is really smart. I hadn't thought about the difference in their staff specialization for federal agency issues. I'm going to look up our Senator's contact info today and reach out to their caseworker. The mobile hotspot suggestion is another angle I haven't tried - you're right that ISP caching issues could be part of this technical nightmare. At this point I'm willing to try anything, even if it sounds unconventional! I've been documenting everything more carefully since reading all these responses, and you're absolutely right that I need to keep escalating this. My daughter's future shouldn't be derailed by their broken system. Thank you for the encouragement and practical advice!
I'm brand new to this community but had to join after reading your post because this exact situation happened to my family last year and it was absolutely infuriating! The "Confirm Your Information" error is a known bug that FAFSA has been ignoring for way too long. What finally worked for us after 6 weeks of the same nightmare was a combination approach I haven't seen mentioned here yet: **The "Nuclear Option" - Complete Fresh Start:** 1. Have your daughter contact her school's financial aid office and request they send a "Parent PLUS Loan Request" directly to you via email (this bypasses the broken confirmation page entirely) 2. When you get that email, use a completely different device you've never used for FAFSA before - like a friend's computer or a library computer in a different town 3. Access it using a VPN set to a different state AND during off-peak hours (I did mine at 2 AM on a Sunday) **The Administrative Pressure Route:** Call FAFSA and specifically say: "I need to file a formal complaint about a persistent technical error that has prevented my Parent PLUS loan application for [X] months." This gets you transferred to a different department that actually has power to override system errors. Also, contact your state's Attorney General's consumer protection division - they can put pressure on federal agencies for unresolved technical issues that affect consumers. This is absolutely unacceptable that you've been dealing with this since May! Your daughter's education shouldn't be held hostage by their broken system. Keep fighting and don't let them brush you off anymore!
Thank you so much for joining just to help me! This "nuclear option" approach sounds like exactly what I need at this point. I had no idea that schools could send Parent PLUS loan requests directly via email - that completely bypasses the broken confirmation page that's been haunting me for months! I'm going to call the financial aid office first thing Monday and specifically ask for this option. The idea of using a completely different device in a different location with a VPN is brilliant too - it eliminates every possible variable that might be causing the error. And filing a formal complaint to get transferred to a department with actual power is something I should have done months ago! I'm also going to contact our state AG's consumer protection division - I never thought about that avenue but you're absolutely right that this is a consumer issue when a broken system prevents access to federal aid. Thank you for giving me such a clear action plan and for the encouragement. It really helps to know others have fought through this exact nightmare and won!
As someone who works in financial aid at a university, I can confirm everything everyone has said here! You MUST include your stepfather's information since you live with your mom and she's married to him. This is one of the most common questions we get, and students are often surprised to learn it's not optional. A few additional tips: 1) Make sure both your mom and stepdad have their FSA IDs set up before you start the FAFSA, 2) If your stepdad doesn't have a Social Security number, there's a different process but he still needs to be included, and 3) Don't be surprised if including a stepparent's income affects your aid eligibility - that's just how the formula works. The important thing is you're following the rules correctly, which protects you from any issues down the road. Good luck with your application!
This is so helpful to get confirmation from someone who actually works in financial aid! I didn't know about the FSA ID requirement for both parents - that's definitely something I need to set up ahead of time. Quick question: when you mention the different process for stepparents without Social Security numbers, is that something that would significantly delay the application? My stepdad is a permanent resident but I want to make sure we're prepared if there are extra steps involved.
@Santiago Diaz That s'a great question about the Social Security number situation! I m'not the original financial aid worker, but I ve'been through a similar process with my stepdad who s'also a permanent resident. From what I experienced, it doesn t'significantly delay the application if you re'prepared. Your stepdad will need to provide his Individual Taxpayer Identification Number ITIN (instead) of an SSN, and you ll'need to enter zeros where the FAFSA asks for his SSN, then follow up with the school s'financial aid office to provide the ITIN separately. The key is having all his tax documents ready W-2s, (1040 form with the ITIN clearly visible because) you ll'likely need to submit those directly to your school rather than using the IRS Data Retrieval Tool. I d'recommend calling your school s'financial aid office early in the process to let them know about this situation - they re'used to handling it and can walk you through their specific procedures.
This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm a junior in high school and my parents are going through a messy divorce right now. My mom is planning to remarry her boyfriend next summer (before I start my senior year), and I was completely confused about how this would affect my FAFSA. Reading everyone's explanations about the "parent you live with + their spouse" rule makes so much sense. It's actually a relief to know there are clear guidelines rather than having to guess what to do. I'm definitely saving this thread to reference when I start my FAFSA application next year. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences - it's really reassuring to know I'm not the only one dealing with complicated family situations when it comes to college financial aid!
As a newcomer to this community and the FAFSA process, I can't thank everyone enough for this incredibly detailed discussion! I'm preparing to file my first FAFSA next year for my oldest child, and I was completely overwhelmed by questions like household size. Reading through all of your real experiences - both the success stories and the verification nightmares - has been so much more helpful than trying to decipher the official FAFSA guidelines alone. The "more than half support" test that keeps coming up seems to be the key principle that cuts through all the confusion. Madison, your situation sounds very straightforward based on what you've shared - if your daughter is working full-time, filing her own taxes, paying you rent, and covering her own expenses, she's clearly supporting herself. The consensus here seems unanimous that you should go with 4 for household size. I'm definitely bookmarking this entire thread for reference! It's amazing how this one question has revealed so many important nuances about the FAFSA process. This community is such a valuable resource for families trying to navigate these complicated financial aid waters. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and experiences so generously!
Welcome to the FAFSA journey! This thread has been absolutely incredible for learning about these nuances. As someone who's also brand new to this process, I can relate to feeling overwhelmed by what should be "simple" questions like household size. What really stands out to me from reading everyone's experiences is how the official FAFSA language can be so confusing, but the underlying principle is actually pretty logical - they want to know who you're financially responsible for, not just who lives at your address. The "more than half support" test that everyone keeps mentioning seems to be the key that unlocks all these confusing scenarios. Madison's situation really does seem clear-cut based on all the expert advice here. A 24-year-old who works full-time, files independently, pays rent, and covers her own expenses is definitely supporting herself. The fact that multiple people with professional experience (like the college counselor) have confirmed this approach gives me a lot of confidence in the advice. I'm also bookmarking this thread! It's going to be my go-to reference when I start my own FAFSA journey. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences - both good and bad - to help the rest of us avoid potential pitfalls!
As someone who's completely new to the FAFSA process and this community, this thread has been absolutely invaluable! I'm planning to file my first FAFSA next year for my son, and I had no idea that household size could be such a nuanced issue. Reading through everyone's experiences here has really highlighted how important it is to understand the "more than half support" test rather than just focusing on who lives at your address. Madison, your situation seems very clear-cut based on all the expert advice shared - if your daughter is working full-time, filing her own taxes, paying rent, and covering her personal expenses, she's definitely providing more than half of her own support. The verification horror stories shared here are honestly eye-opening! It really drives home how crucial it is to get these details right from the beginning rather than dealing with months of paperwork and potential aid delays later. Thank you for asking this question - it's probably helping so many families who are in similar situations but weren't sure where to turn for guidance. This community is such an amazing resource for navigating these complex financial aid waters!
Welcome to the community! I'm also completely new to this whole process and this thread has been such a game-changer for understanding these tricky household size questions. Like you, I had no idea there were so many nuances to what seemed like a straightforward question. What really strikes me about this discussion is how consistent everyone's advice has been about the "more than half support" test. It seems like once you understand that principle, these situations become much clearer. Madison's case really does sound like a textbook example of someone who shouldn't be counted - working full-time, financially independent, paying her own way. The verification stories are definitely scary, but it's so reassuring to see how helpful this community is for avoiding those pitfalls. I feel much more prepared for when my turn comes to navigate FAFSA! Thanks to Madison for asking the question we all needed answered.
Theodore Nelson
As a complete newcomer to both this community and the FAFSA process, I can't thank everyone enough for this incredibly detailed discussion! I'm the parent of a 2026 graduate and was feeling completely overwhelmed about when and how to start the financial aid process until I found this thread. The timeline breakdown from @Kara Yoshida is exactly what I needed - I'm copying it into my planning documents right now. And the real-world experiences from parents like @Mateusius Townsend about missing deadlines really drives home how important it is to file early rather than waiting. I'm especially grateful for the professional insights from @QuantumQuasar and @Selena Bautista about verification processes, CSS Profile requirements, and dependency status - these are things I never would have known to research on my own. My biggest takeaway is that this really is like a part-time job that requires starting the research and organization phase NOW, even though we won't actually file until October 2025. I'm already creating a tracking spreadsheet for school deadlines and starting to research our state aid programs (found two I didn't know existed just from this conversation!). One question for those who've been through this - did you find it beneficial to create FSA IDs for both parent and student well in advance, or is a few weeks before the FAFSA opens sufficient? I want to make sure we don't hit any unexpected delays when the application goes live. Thanks again to everyone for making this complex process feel so much more manageable!
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Drake
•Welcome to the community @Theodore Nelson! I'm also new here and completely new to the FAFSA process with my 2026 graduate. This thread has been absolutely invaluable - I feel like I've gotten a master class in college financial aid just from reading through everyone's experiences and advice. Regarding your question about FSA IDs, from what I've gathered from other discussions and the Federal Student Aid website, it's definitely better to create them well in advance rather than waiting until just before the FAFSA opens. The ID creation process can sometimes take a few days to fully activate, especially if there are any verification issues with the information you provide. Plus, you'll want to make sure both you and your student can successfully log in and that all the information is correct before you're under the pressure of trying to submit the FAFSA on opening day. I'm planning to create our FSA IDs sometime in late summer 2025, maybe August or September, so we have plenty of time to resolve any potential issues before the October deadline. That way we can focus entirely on completing the actual FAFSA form when it opens rather than dealing with account setup problems. Thanks for joining this discussion - it's been so helpful having multiple parents asking the questions I didn't even know I should be asking!
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Chris Elmeda
As a newcomer to this community and someone who's completely new to the FAFSA process, I wanted to express my gratitude for this incredibly informative thread! My son is also graduating in 2026, and I was feeling totally lost about the timeline until I found this discussion. The detailed breakdown from @Kara Yoshida has been a lifesaver - I'm already setting up calendar reminders based on that timeline. And hearing about real experiences like @Mateusius Townsend's situation with missing priority deadlines really emphasizes how crucial timing is in this process. I'm particularly appreciative of the professional insights from @QuantumQuasar about the verification process and Net Price Calculators. I had no idea these tools were federally mandated or that verification affects about 1/3 of applicants - that's exactly the kind of insider knowledge that's so hard to find elsewhere. Based on everything I've learned here, I'm starting my preparation now by researching each potential college's specific deadlines, looking into our state aid programs (already found one grant I didn't know existed!), and planning to create FSA IDs well before October 2025. One question for the group - for those dealing with small business income, did you find any particular resources or professionals especially helpful in navigating how that affects FAFSA calculations? This seems like an area where the standard advice might not apply, and I want to make sure we handle it correctly. Thanks again to everyone for creating such a supportive and informative community for parents like me who are figuring this out for the first time!
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Nia Davis
•Welcome to the community @Chris Elmeda! I'm also completely new to this whole process and have been following this thread religiously - it's been such an eye-opener about how complex college financial aid really is. Regarding your question about small business income, I don't have direct experience yet since we're all in the same 2026 timeline, but I noticed that @Charlotte Jones mentioned earlier in the thread that families with self-employment or rental income should consider meeting with a tax professional before filing 2024 taxes, as there might be legitimate ways to structure income that could help with aid eligibility. That seems like it would apply to small business situations too. Also, @QuantumQuasar (the financial aid counselor) specifically mentioned that small business ownership is one of those "unusual circumstances" where it's worth scheduling consultations with each college's financial aid office after admission to understand how they interpret business income differently. I'm in a somewhat similar boat with rental property income, so I'm planning to find a tax professional who understands both business taxes AND college financial aid implications - apparently those two areas of expertise don't always overlap, so it's important to find someone who knows both. This thread has been such a goldmine of information that I never would have found anywhere else. Thanks for adding your questions too - the more we can all learn together, the better prepared we'll all be!
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