To directly answer your original question: Yes, your ex (biological father) is NOT included on the FAFSA if he doesn't live with your daughter. Only you and your current spouse need to be included. Regarding verification concerns: Keep good documentation of your marriage date. While normal marriage within the tax year typically doesn't trigger verification, having both married and single filing statuses within one FAFSA cycle sometimes causes the system to flag the application. Also, consider submitting a special circumstances letter to your daughter's college financial aid office explaining the recent marriage. They may be able to make professional judgment adjustments if your family's financial situation has changed significantly due to the marriage.

Welcome to the community! I'm also navigating blended family FAFSA requirements for the first time. Your situation sounds very similar to mine - I remarried last year and have been stressed about getting everything right for my son's application. From what I've learned lurking here, it sounds like the key is getting your husband's FSA ID set up ASAP since that can take a few days to process. I've been putting together all our financial documents early just in case we get selected for verification. The marriage certificate advice seems really smart too. Good luck with your daughter's application - at least we're not alone in figuring this out!

I'm so glad to see all the helpful advice here! As someone who works with families navigating financial aid, I wanted to add a few more suggestions: 1. Contact your daughter's high school guidance counselor - they often maintain lists of local scholarships that aren't widely advertised online. Some are specifically for students with family hardships. 2. Look into the United Way in your area - many chapters have emergency education funds for situations exactly like yours. 3. Consider reaching out to your state representatives' offices. Many have constituent services that can help navigate state programs you might not know about, and they sometimes maintain lists of lesser-known scholarship opportunities. 4. If your younger daughters receive services through Early Intervention or special education, ask their case workers about sibling support resources. These professionals often know about funding sources that aren't well publicized. The fact that you're being so proactive gives your daughter a real advantage. Don't get discouraged if some applications don't pan out - it's often a numbers game, and persistence really does pay off in financial aid situations like this.

I went through something similar with my son who has a sibling with cerebral palsy. One thing that really helped us was contacting the National Organization for Rare Disorders (NORD) - they have a patient assistance program that includes educational scholarships for family members. Since you mentioned your daughters have rare genetic disorders, this could be perfect for your situation. Also, check if your state has a Family-to-Family Health Information Center. Ours helped us find scholarships we never would have discovered otherwise, including one from a pharmaceutical company that makes medications for rare diseases. Another tip: when you're gathering documentation for the Special Circumstances form, include a letter from your daughters' doctors explaining the ongoing nature of their conditions and projected future costs. Medical professionals' letters carry a lot of weight with financial aid offices. Don't forget to ask about payment plan options too - even if you can't get the full amount covered, spreading payments over 10-12 months instead of paying per semester can make a huge difference for cash flow.

Welcome to the FAFSA correction club - unfortunately it's a bigger club than any of us would like! I went through this exact scenario with my twins last year (yes, double the fun). We had to correct both of their FAFSAs for the same income reporting error and I was absolutely beside myself about missing deadlines. Here's what I learned: the 3-5 day estimate you'll see online is outdated. With the new FAFSA system rollout, corrections are taking closer to 10-14 business days on average. BUT the silver lining is that schools really do understand this is happening system-wide and are being flexible. One thing that saved my sanity was creating a shared Google doc with my husband that tracked: each school's financial aid office contact info, when we called them, who we spoke with, and what they told us about their correction policies. Most schools told us they'd hold our applications and review them once corrections processed, even if it was past their "priority" deadline. Also pro tip: when you call the schools, ask specifically about their correction grace period policy. Many have unofficial policies where they'll still consider you for priority aid if your correction was submitted within 2 weeks of the deadline, even if processing takes longer. You're being such a proactive parent - your daughter is lucky to have someone staying on top of this!

First-time FAFSA parent here too, and reading through all these experiences is giving me so much hope! We submitted our FAFSA last month but just realized we forgot to include some 1099-INT income from a savings account. Not a huge amount, but enough that I'm worried about accuracy. I submitted our correction yesterday after seeing this thread and all the advice about acting quickly. The confirmation number tip from @Zoe Gonzalez was super helpful - I screenshot everything this time! One question for the group: has anyone dealt with corrections for missing investment income specifically? I'm trying to figure out if this type of error typically changes the SAI significantly or if small amounts don't move the needle much. Our total adjusted gross income was around $75K, so I'm hoping a few hundred in interest income won't dramatically affect my daughter's aid eligibility. Also planning to use the Claimyr suggestion to actually talk to someone at FSA - the regular phone line has been impossible. Thank you all for sharing your stories and making this whole process feel less scary!

As a newcomer to this community, I have to say this thread has been incredibly eye-opening and frankly quite concerning. I'm just beginning the FAFSA process for my daughter and had no idea about these family size calculation issues, especially for parents who file separately. Reading through everyone's experiences, it's clear that the 2024-2025 FAFSA has some serious systemic problems. The fact that so many families are dealing with thousands of dollars in incorrect aid calculations due to what appears to be a known glitch is really troubling. It shouldn't require this level of advocacy and persistence just to get accurate financial aid calculations. That said, I'm incredibly grateful for all the practical advice shared here - from requesting specific calculation breakdowns to making in-person visits with documentation. The step-by-step strategies from @Kai Santiago and @Nia Jackson especially seem like they could save families months of frustration. For those still fighting these issues, it sounds like the key is being very specific about what you're requesting and not accepting vague answers about "automatic updates." The difference between family sizes of 3 vs 4 or 2 vs 4 clearly has major financial implications that are worth pursuing until resolved correctly. I'll definitely be taking screenshots of everything when we submit our FAFSA and checking the SAR immediately for accuracy. Thank you all for sharing your experiences - this community support seems essential for navigating these bureaucratic challenges!

As someone who's been lurking in this community for a while but never posted, I felt compelled to share after reading through this incredibly detailed thread. My family is currently dealing with this exact same FAFSA family size issue - we filed separately in 2022 and our son's aid calculation is showing family size 3 instead of our actual 5. The potential difference in aid for us is even larger, around $4,200 according to the estimator. What's been most frustrating is the inconsistent information we've gotten from different sources. The financial aid office told us one thing, FSA support said something completely different, and our tax preparer had never even heard of this issue. Reading everyone's experiences here has been both validating and incredibly helpful - especially knowing that this is a widespread problem with the 24-25 FAFSA system rather than something we did wrong. I'm planning to use the strategies outlined here: requesting the calculation breakdown, asking for manual SAI recalculation, and bringing documentation for an in-person visit if needed. The fact that so many families have successfully resolved this gives me hope that persistence really does pay off. Thank you all for sharing such detailed accounts of what worked - this thread should be required reading for anyone dealing with FAFSA family size discrepancies!

As someone who just went through this transition last year, I can confirm everything everyone's said is spot on! One thing I'd add is that even if you don't think you'll need loans right away, having the FAFSA on file opens doors you might not even know about yet. My program ended up offering emergency grants during the semester that were only available to students who had completed FAFSA. Also, some external scholarships and fellowships require you to have attempted federal aid first. The independent status thing is automatic - the system recognizes your grad student enrollment and you won't have any hoops to jump through to prove it. Definitely worth the hour it takes to complete!

Just wanted to chime in as another recent grad school starter! I was in almost the exact same situation last year - 23, living at home between semesters, parents' income too high for undergrad aid. The automatic independent status for grad students was a game changer for me. My SAI dropped from what would have been around $40K (with parents' info) to about $3,200 (just my part-time job income). Even though I didn't qualify for grants, I was able to get unsubsidized loans at a decent rate, and my department offered me a small research assistant position that required FAFSA completion. The whole application took me maybe 45 minutes since I didn't need any parent documents. Pro tip: start gathering your tax documents now so you're ready when the 2025-26 FAFSA opens in October. You've got this!