We actually hadn't thought about that! That's a really interesting idea that might avoid the annual argument. Do you know if they both take turns with Head of Household too, or just the dependent claim?

They both take turns with everything - dependent claim, child tax credit, and head of household. They actually put it in writing too, like a simple agreement they both signed, so there's no confusion each year. My brother did say they had to adjust it one year when his girlfriend wasn't working much because it made way more sense financially for him to claim that year. But having the agreement as a baseline helped them discuss it without it turning into a fight.

I've noticed this too! I ran mine through three different programs last year just to check, and FreeTaxUSA actually gave me the highest refund. I think different software calculates certain credits slightly differently or asks questions in ways that lead to different inputs.

Exactly! I think it's because they ask the qualifying questions in different ways. Some make certain deductions or credits more obvious than others. I always tell people to at least try a free calculator from 2-3 different places before filing. You don't have to actually file through all of them, but at least see if there's a big difference in the results. It's worth the extra hour of your time if you find hundreds in additional refund money.

Thanks for explaining the specific steps in TurboTax! Does FreeTaxUSA have a similar option? I'm still deciding between the two platforms.

Yes, FreeTaxUSA has a very similar option. When you get to the income section, go to the self-employment/business income area. Enter your 1099-NEC forms first if you have them. Then there's an option for "Other business income not reported on Form 1099-NEC" where you can enter a total amount for income without forms. FreeTaxUSA actually has a pretty straightforward interface for this specific situation and might save you some money compared to TurboTax if you have a lot of forms to enter.

This is 100% true. I didn't properly categorize expenses last year, and I'm paying for it now with an audit. The IRS wants to know which expenses correlate to which income streams. Super important advice.

Ah crap I didn't even think about self-employment tax! The side gig was graphic design work I did for a local business. They just needed some logos and paid me directly, no tax withholding. So I'm guessing that would count as self-employment? Does that mean I need to file some additional form besides just the 1040-X?

Yes, you'll definitely need to pay self-employment tax on that income. Since it's over $400, you're required to pay the 15.3% SE tax. You'll need to include Schedule SE with your amended return to calculate the self-employment tax, along with Schedule C to report the business income and any related expenses. This is where you might find some deductions to offset the income - did you use your own computer, software, or have any other expenses related to the graphic design work? Those can be deductible business expenses on Schedule C.

The IRS says 16 weeks is currently the normal processing time for amended returns, but mine took almost 6 months last year! The "Where's My Amended Return" tool on IRS.gov was completely useless too - just kept saying "processing" the entire time.

Six months?? That's insane! I was hoping to use my refund for summer tuition. Guess I better make other plans. Thanks for letting me know though - at least I won't be anxiously checking every day now.

That's actually really smart! If they're in the middle of the 22% bracket with W2 income of $150k, then using 401k contributions to drop down could push some of that SE income into the 12% bracket. Could save thousands.

That's interesting! I hadn't thought about doing more frequent payments. My SE income does tend to be somewhat consistent monthly, so this could help with budgeting. Is there any downside to making monthly payments instead of quarterly?

No real downside to making monthly payments. The IRS will credit you for whatever you've paid by each quarterly due date. The only minor inconvenience is having to make more payment transactions, but that's easy with EFTPS (Electronic Federal Tax Payment System). The biggest advantage is psychological - setting aside smaller amounts more frequently is easier than coming up with a big payment every three months. Just make sure you keep good records of all payments. I use a simple spreadsheet to track payment dates, confirmation numbers, and running totals for the year.

Thank you for mentioning the Head of Household status! We hadn't considered that. Do you know if my partner would need any specific documentation to prove he's been supporting my oldest? We don't have formal custody arrangements since the biological father isn't in the picture at all.

You don't need formal custody arrangements in this case since there's no other person claiming the child. The key is being able to show that your partner maintained the household and supported the child if ever questioned. It's good practice to keep records showing your partner paid household expenses (rent/mortgage receipts, utility bills in their name) and child-specific expenses (school records, medical bills, childcare receipts). Also helpful are any documents showing the child's address matches yours (school records, medical records). The IRS doesn't require you to submit these with your return, but they're good to have if you're ever audited or questioned.

The EITC is huge! But be really careful with the rules there. When I claimed my niece who lived with me, I messed up some paperwork and got audited. Took forever to resolve. Make sure every detail is perfect on that one.