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For anyone dealing with these kinds of special circumstances, documenting the "unusual nature" of the situation is critical. Financial aid officers have told me they look for: 1. Evidence of abandonment/neglect by biological parents 2. Impossibility (not just difficulty) in obtaining parental information 3. Evidence the student is self-supporting or supported by someone else 4. Letters from professionals (not family friends) who can verify the situation Also, very important: dependency overrides must be renewed EACH YEAR. Don't assume it carries over automatically.
Thank you all SO MUCH. This has been incredibly helpful. We've already started gathering documentation, and my niece has an appointment with her counselor tomorrow to get a support letter. I feel much better knowing there's a path forward, even if it requires some extra steps. Will update once we hear back from the schools!
Just wanted to add that you might also want to contact the colleges directly to ask about their specific dependency override policies. Some schools are much more generous with these than others, and it could factor into her final college decision. I've heard that some private schools with large endowments are particularly flexible with special circumstances like this. Also, make sure to ask each financial aid office about their timeline - some process these overrides much faster than others, which could be important given those early priority deadlines you mentioned. Good luck!
This is such great advice about contacting schools directly! I'm new to this whole process but dealing with something similar with my younger brother. Can I ask - when you say some private schools are more flexible, do you mean they're more likely to approve the override or that they provide better aid packages once it's approved? Also wondering if anyone knows whether community colleges handle these situations differently than 4-year schools? My brother is considering starting at CC to save money but I want to make sure we don't run into different complications there.
Update for anyone following this thread: The Department of Education just released their contingency plan for the potential shutdown. They've confirmed that Pell Grant disbursements WILL continue as scheduled. The document states that approximately 96% of their financial aid staff would be exempt from furlough specifically to ensure critical operations like disbursements continue. However, they also noted that customer service operations would be limited, and processing of new FAFSA applications could face delays. If you have a pending application or are dealing with verification, that's where you might see the biggest impact.
As someone who's been through multiple government shutdown scares while depending on Pell Grants, I can confirm what others have said - the grants themselves are usually protected. What really helped me was creating a backup plan early on. I talked to my financial aid office about emergency aid options, looked into payment plan extensions, and even researched local emergency funds for students. Also, if you're really worried about the timing, some schools will let you defer certain deadlines if you can show that federal aid delays are the cause. The key is being proactive and communicating with your school's financial aid office rather than waiting to see what happens. They deal with these situations regularly and usually have protocols in place. Don't let the anxiety consume you - I know it's scary when your entire education depends on that funding, but the system is designed to keep critical programs like Pell running even during political chaos.
It really is an outdated approach. I feel like the system was designed for how families worked in the 1980s or something, not today's reality. Thanks for sharing your experience - it helps knowing I'm not alone in this struggle at least.
I'm going through something similar right now and it's incredibly frustrating! One thing that might help - have you looked into your state's financial aid programs? Some states have their own grants and scholarships that use different criteria than FAFSA. Also, if you're in a healthcare program with clinical rotations, check if your school has any emergency aid funds or profession-specific scholarships. Many nursing/medical programs have small grants specifically for students in financial hardship that don't go through the normal FAFSA process. Another option to explore: some employers (even part-time ones like your coffee shop) offer tuition assistance programs. It might be worth asking HR if they have any educational benefits you're not aware of. Even a small amount could help bridge the gap while you're fighting this dependency status battle. Keep pushing on the Professional Judgment route that others mentioned - that really seems like your best shot given the circumstances. The whole system is so broken for students like us who are truly independent but don't fit their narrow definitions.
This is really solid advice! I hadn't thought about state-specific aid programs at all - I've been so focused on federal aid that I completely overlooked that option. I'm definitely going to research what my state offers. The emergency aid fund suggestion is brilliant too. I know my program has some kind of student support services but I've never looked into what financial help they might have available. Even a small emergency grant could make a huge difference while I'm dealing with this FAFSA mess. I'll ask my manager about tuition assistance too - I've been working there for over a year and they've never mentioned it, but it's worth asking. Thanks for thinking outside the box on this! Sometimes when you're stuck in the FAFSA nightmare you forget there might be other funding sources out there.
quick question: are ur twins going to the same school? if yes some colleges have special twin scholarships! my friend's twins got half off at [redacted] university just for being twins lol
Just wanted to add that you should also check the specific deadlines for each school your twins are applying to! Even though you'll be filling out federal FAFSA forms, many colleges have their own priority deadlines for institutional aid that can be earlier than the federal deadline. With twins applying to different schools, you'll want to make a calendar of all the important dates so you don't miss any opportunities for additional grants or scholarships. Also, some schools require CSS Profile in addition to FAFSA, so double-check those requirements too. You're doing great navigating all this!
This is such helpful advice! I hadn't thought about the different deadlines for each school. You're absolutely right - I should make a master calendar with all the dates. Do you know if there's a good resource for tracking all these different deadlines? And yes, I've heard about CSS Profile but wasn't sure which schools require it. I'll definitely check with each of their target schools. Thank you for the encouragement - some days this feels impossible but comments like yours remind me I can figure this out!
Mateo Hernandez
Congratulations on getting that resolved! What a relief that must be. Since you have some time to prepare now, I'd also recommend having your daughter take a full-length practice test under timed conditions to get a baseline score. This will help identify which areas need the most focus. The official College Board practice tests are free and the closest thing to the actual test format. Also, make sure she gets a good night's sleep before the test - I've seen too many students sabotage themselves by staying up late cramming the night before. Best of luck to her!
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Melina Haruko
•This is such great advice! I'm definitely going to have her do a full practice test this weekend to see where she stands. The sleep tip is really important too - I'll make sure she has a normal bedtime routine the week of the test. It's amazing how much stress can affect performance. Thanks for taking the time to share these tips!
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Ava Garcia
So glad you got this sorted out! As someone who went through the National Merit process with my daughter a few years ago, I just wanted to add that prep really does make a difference. Beyond the practice tests everyone mentioned, consider having her focus on vocabulary - the reading section can trip up even strong students with unfamiliar words. Also, if she's aiming for National Merit, she'll need to score in roughly the top 1% for your state (the cutoff varies by state each year). Don't stress too much about the exact number though - just have her do her best! The experience of taking the PSAT will also help her when she takes the actual SAT later.
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